A year or two ago youtube moved there embed code so its not surprising your having trouble finding it.
Under the video find the grey text link that says "Share" and click it, its kinda hard to see because its color is not very noticeable and blends in with the background just enough to make it difficult to see. So once you find the "share" link click it and that will bring up some sharing options, so then you want to click the grey text link that says "Embed" option, and that will show you the embed code you can copy and paste here in your post.
Some things to note: before you copy the embed code you have the option of choosing a video "size" under the embed code, but if you don't want to to change its size just ignore it and copy the embed code as usual, however if you want to make the video bigger (which I like to do) choose a larger size not going over width 853 and then copy the code. The reason for not going over the width size of "853" is to ensure it fits nicely on the forum and the video doesn't get cut-off by the video being too wide by the borders of this forum, but like I said you can ignore changing the video size if you want because its default size is always smaller than 853 and just copy the code when it is first presented to you.
Now, there is a completely other way of posting a video that is actually a lot easier than the embed code way, that way is to simply copy the url of the video page you are on while viewing the video, then come back to the forum and while you are making your post click the little button above the writing area that looks like a piece of video tape and paste the url into the little box provided and then click "ok", that will add the video to your post also. The little video button above the writing area looks like this
, just click that and paste the url into it.
So those are some posting video options, you can choose which method you'd like to use.
I don't need to preview the videos, because any video that is on youtube is perfectly safe and acceptable here, thanks for your discretion but we are guided by youtube and what they allow to be made public viewing.
You still have that car eh? That's great I always liked that car, which reminds me, if you need help with an avatar or something feel free to ask and I'll add a avatar for you with anything you want it to be. I'm not suggesting you get an avatar but if you would like one other than the forums default "No Avatar" I will help you with that.